Ceremony to celebrate the ritual in three regions of North, Central and South
What is the touching ceremony?
Ceremony ceremony (also known as a ceremony to watch the face, lane touching) is a ritual to formalize the marriage relationship of two families. Today, the marriage ritual of Vietnamese people shortens from 6 to 3 ceremonies, in which the lane is considered as the beginning of the relationship between the two sides of the family, officially bringing the relationship of two people from love. become a serious relationship towards family building in the future.
Ceremony ceremony: The station for the wedding
Today, Lane is simply an intimate meeting between two families. The groom's family asks to go to the bride's house to formally ask the couple to get to know each other before deciding on marriage. This ceremony, no need for the appointment role of the matchmaker (including the case of love matchmaking thanks to matchmaking), no cumbersome gifts but the groom's family should inform the date and time, the number of people attending.
The bride's family based on the number of guests that invite more relative to attend to allow. Men and women today are modern and free to love, but seriously organize a ceremony to show respect for parents on both sides of the family, recognizing the important role of the family in the marriage relationship.
Ceremony ceremony includes what?
This ritual is simple and friendly, but many families are confused and do not know what should be done to allow for each region. Marry conducted interviews with families to learn more about the touching ceremony and summarized some experiences for couples to refer to shortly.
- Northern
Gifts include: a pair of tea, a pair of wine, a few cakes of fruit and indispensable betel nut. These offerings are even numbers. In accordance with the customs of the North, the groom's family presents to the girl's family the number of people who will come to the ceremony, usually the parents, the groom and the groom, but no more than 7 people. In it, a reputable member of the clan will attend and ask permission for the couple to officially come together.
During the North Vietnamese engagement ceremony, the couple are often asked by their parents to light incense on the altar of ancestors, such as the ceremony of asking for permission from an ancestor for a serious relationship. The challenge of wedding, number of fruits, guests and the wedding day will be discussed by both families in this ceremony.
- Central
The gifts of the Central people are simple, usually only have betel nut trays and a bottle of red wine wrapped paper. As a gift for the bride's family, the Central people often offer offerings of local specialties, especially Hong cake, traditional cakes are always present in the wedding ceremony of Binh Dinh and Phu Yen people.
Normally, the process of committing ceremony of Central people only parents of future boys and grooms to the bride's family has the question of marriage. The groom's family will ask the bride's family to light incense on the altar of the ancestor, and ask for the certification of the bride's ancestor. After that, parents on both sides of the family raised questions about marriage and wedding day
- South
Celebration of the Southern people is also known as the speaking ceremony, the wedding ceremony. The wedding tray in the South often has a pair of wine, a pair of tea wrapped in solemn red paper, a plate of betel and betel leaves with phoenix wings and a tray of five fruits.
Participants in the South speaking group besides the groom's parents are also uncles, who have a voice in the lineage. Usually, the groom's mother will show the bride's mother the date of birth of the groom to see if the wedding date is suitable for two people.
